Sunday, March 30, 2014

Maxwell Quinlan

After a long and productive day of kind of getting stuff done, Zach and I had fallen asleep putting the kids to bed.  I was laying on the floor next to Charlotte’s bed when Zach woke me up at 11:00 PM.  He helped me up onto me knees when I noticed a strange wetness.  Turns out my water broke.  It was four days before my due date and I have never gone into labor or even gone into labor on my own, so it was a big surprise.  So, we started to pack up for the hospital.  I kissed the kids goodbye and told them what was happening, but they barely gained consciousness.  We drove off to the hospital with Jonathan and Jenna in charge. 

Waiting and catching up on my journal - before the pain started

We got to the hospital at 12:30 AM and then we waited. And waited.  I was only at a two when we got there and it took till 6 AM to get to a 3.  I finally got the epidural around 6 AM and it gave some relief, but it didn’t have the same amazing effect as with the other deliveries. 
    
I went in and out a bit at this point, because I hadn't gotten much sleep, but they had to keep an eye on me with the medicine to make sure it didn't have a bad effect.  Also, they had started to notice that the baby’s heart rate went down every time I had a contraction.  When they told me about this, I got pretty worried.  The nurse told me that it was probably because the cord was wrapped around his neck, and the contractions made it tighten, but since it went back up after the contraction it was a sign that his brain activity was good.  I still spent almost an entire hour staring at the monitor watching the heart rate go down with every contraction and freaking out a bit every time.  

I got put on pitocin, which moved things along a little, but I had pretty much convinced myself that he was never coming out.  We had to wait a while longer and the contractions were getting a little stronger.  We actually had the sacrament brought to us right before I delivered, which was interesting.  

Once it was time it went fast.  I only pushed once!  And then Maxwell Quinlan was born at 11:10 AM!  The cord had been around his neck, but he was completely fine, just a lot purple.  They sat up my bed higher than I have ever sat before and I could actually see him come out, which was amazing.   The doctor cleared out his nasal passages and then they laid him right on me.  He was so tiny and purple.  His hands seemed huge for some reason and he had such long fingers and nails.  His tiny little toes had little triangle shaped nails.  I couldn’t believe how small he was!  So tiny! Once they laid him on me he had stopped crying.  I held him and kissed him for about ten minutes, then they took his measurements (7lbs 5oz and 21 inches).  They were saying how he was tiny but long.  


He ate amazingly well when they gave him back.  We just sat together while he ate and we chatted about his wonderfulness.   



Zach went and got the kids and brought them to meet their new brother.  They were crazy excited!

Charlotte and Maxwell

Sam and Maxi Q

Ben and the Mighty Quin

My boys

 Overall, it was a wonderful experience and we are so happy to have this new little angel in our family.  He is pretty much amazing!

As Ben put it when he first saw him: "I was worried he wouldn't be as cute as he is.  But he is cute. Three times cuter!"